Causes of nightmare

People with BPD are morbidly afraid of being abandoned. That fear makes them cling to abusive relationships because it is better for some of them to put up with abuse than to be left alone. It is a very difficult and the most painful condition to have. I do have…

Buddha’s path to happiness

For Buddha, the path to happiness starts from an understanding of the root causes of suffering. Those who consider Buddha a pessimist because of his concern with suffering have missed the point. In fact, he is a skillful doctor-he may break the bad news of our suffering, but he also…

Treatment for emptiness

I still do feel very empty and bored sometimes. Feelings of emptiness and boredom can be really overwhelming because I literally feel like I cease to exist and it is hard to tolerate that feeling. It has been much better these days but I still do feel empty and when…

How to cope with being diagnosed with BPD

This has never happened to me as I have never been officially diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. I personally believe that I have strong traits and certainly I was on my way to self-destruction. I was pretty miserable especially during and after my college years. Having traits of BPD can…

Polly Fieding

I wanted to introduce my friend Polly Fielding. She is a talented writer and an artist. You can go to her website (http://pollyfielding.com) to check our her amazing artwork and books. About Polly @FieldingPolly Hello and welcome to my site, however you arrived here! First let me introduce myself. I'm…

Jael Strauss

Jael Strauss was one of the finalists on Cycle 8 of America's Next Top Model. She was 22 years old, looking gorgeous and six years later, in 2012, she was on Dr. Phil's show. Her family reached out to Dr. Phil so they could stage an intervention on the show.…

Fight the stigma. BPD is misunderstood.

"Borderline personality disorder, or BPD, is a debilitating condition and even professionals stigmatize the illness. BPD distorts the individual's self-perception and interferes with their ability to maintain stable relationships. Those who suffer from BPD are seen as highly manipulative, dependent and dramatic, but mental health professionals understand that this behavior…

Nothing is perfect..

I finally had a chance to meet with my childhood who is a proud mom of two children today. The last time saw her was in 2005 so it has been ten years. She looked good as always and brought her daughter for lunch and seeing her little daughter makes…

Does karma really exist?

Embed from Getty Images By Ashok Malhotra The principle of Karma is a central part of spiritual philosophies. Karma is a Sanskrit word used in eastern philosophies of Hinduism and Buddhism. In Islam and Christianity different words are used to describe the same principle. Basically the principle of Karma implies…